What is the pleasure in being a top (lesbian/bi girls)?
girl moan pleasure
I’m naturally quite submissive so i like to receive but my ex girlfriend was a top and she said just hearing me breathe and moan was enough to really turn her on, I didn’t even have to return the favor but can giving in sex really be that much of a turn on?
These answers are making me feel hot haha
For me, it relates to how I feel about the female. I definitely want to get off, but if the woman matters a lot to me then even just THINKING about pleasuring HER is a huge turn-on. I guess it’s kind of how guys are, in a way, even though I think with guys turning women on in bed is much more about their egos. What’s similar is just how exciting it is to be able to inspire such passion and pleasure in someone else, especially someone that important to you. I want to do whatever I can to make her feel good, and I want to be the best at it…it would be disappointing to me otherwise.
Yup. Sex starts in the brain, after all.
I once complained on a lesbian porn forum about the one-sidedness of a lot of the scenes (usually with the butches always topping, which saddens me, because I like to see butches bottoming), and how unfair it is. Several people noted that when they get into "top space", they’re completely involved in it and just want to stay there- and they are just as spent when their partner climaxes as if they’d done it themselves.
YES!
Try It And See LOL x
Yes definitely! I agree with some of the previous answers, just turning her on matters to me. If I can get her to breathe hard and climax, it’s so hot and I am extremely turned on. At that point, it no longer takes much for me to reach climax as well. I don’t even have to receive anything as long as I can hear her. I get going faster by giving her orgasms before she starts on me than by her just going at it. I also agree with feeling and seeing the person move and jerk as one of the most sexy things I’ve ever seen in my life. Don’t get me wrong, when she’s going down on me, I’m in heaven, but I still enjoy giving it to her more because I love to please her and it is the most intimate way to make her happy when I satisfy her sexual desires.