So Me And This Girl Want To Have Sex…?
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We Really Want To Have Sex, But There Is Several Problems.
1)I’m A Virgin And She’s Had Sex With 8 Guys
2)I Don’t Think I’m Big Enough For Her
3)I Weigh About 70 Pounds More Than Her
4)I’m Not Sure If I Will Be Able To Pleasure Her Enough
I Really Want To Make A Good "First Impression." We’ve Already Decided On The Use Of A Condom. I Don’t Really Care If It’s A Pleasurable Experience For Me Or Not, But I Really Want It To Be Pleasurable For Her. And I’m Not Sure If I’m Going To Last Long, How Long Do I Need To Last? I Want Her To Cum First, Is There Any Technique To Not Cum Right Away? Also I’m Not Exactly Sure If I’ll Moan Or Not… I Don’t Want To Sound Stupid And Moan Too Much, But I Don’t Want Her To Feel Bad If I Don’t Moan… I Never Thought Sex Was Something To Worry About So Much. I Suppose I’m Really Just Looking For Advice To Woo Her. Any Advice Is Welcome. Thank You In Advance.
I Forgot To Mention That Me And This Girl Really Love Each Other And Have Proven It. She Doesn’t Want To Have Sex With Me Just To Have Sex. She Wants To Have Sex With Me Because She Knows That I Want To Have Sex With Her.
1.)The fact that you are a virgin and she is not there will always be a low self esteem issue there
because you don’t know what you are doing completely.
Since she has had sex with other guys she should be able to give you some pointers because
yes you arn’t going to be perfect in bed the first time you have sex.
2.) Yes some girls do only care about the size that the guy has but the truth is that the size of the
boat doesn’t really matter.. it is how you can rock it that does and plus in time you will learn more
tricks and things that will make you feel better about ur size and you won’t even care anymore.
3.) I don’t think weight really matters just don’t put all of you weight on her like say if you are on top?
just kinda keep yourself up and everything should be fine.
4.) For you first time you shouldn’t worry about that.. all because everything will be sooo new to you and you won’t just be thinking about her finishing off, you will be also focusing on how good it feels to you as well.
** Always use protection..but no sex is the safest sex lolz
For as long as you can last then do it.. once she says she is going to cumm then you should be able to finish as well but if she never says anything then don’t worry about it or ask her when she
feels like she is about to..
Most guys believe it or not don’t moan mainly a certain majority of them do..
so if you are the type that does then I don’t see anything wrong with that but for your first time
I think you will be to caught up in the moment and you will be focusing on wat you are doing than just being carfree.
Don’t be too nervous just relax and take one step at a time.
Don’t do anything you don’t wanna do :-]
No, you got it good. If she knows your a virgin and she’s cool with it, she’s gonna teach you a thing or two. Just do what comes natural when the time come’s. Don’t worry about being a good lover, cuz you won’t be your first time.
Sex is not the ultimate solution
Shw seems like a call girl and will ruin your life. Believe me, just try to avoid her.
At first, you may feel pleasurable while having sex, but she may blackmail you later
You weigh 70 pounds more?
Wow.
Tell her that you’re a virgin and ask her to guide you. If she has so much experience, she will know what to tell you and what you will do during the act. Do not sleep with her if you don’t trust her or can tell her that you are a virigin. The most important thing when you are going to have sex with someone for the first time, is to trust the person!
If shes really that experienced then she will know not to expect much from a virgin. I suspect that she must be excited that shes going to be with a virgin anyway. If you don’t last very long then just do it again. And moan all you want as its great to hear that the other person is enjoying themselves. I wouldn’t worry about pleasuring her because shes more experienced and will know what to do and what positions work best for her to have a good time. Im sure one of the perks to having sex with a virgin is being able to teach them. So just relax and have a sense of humour about it and im sure you will be fine.
Ever heard of the pre-date safety ejaculation? haha. u need that. Don’t worry about the moaning thing, She’ll probably be glad that shes pleasing you. I would be. damn. I actually like it when a guy moans or something. cuz’ it means hes really into it. Dude. The website for you is Askmen.com It has advice for literally everything from sex to dating to love. And there are hundreds of articles on exactly your problem. Sorry couldn’t be of more help
I don’t understand why people feel so uncomfortable with these things. You apparently like this girl enough to actually screw her, why wouldn’t she respect the fact that you don’t sleep around? And if you don’t actually love this girl, then why care?
Its all in your head, just relax and try to go with it. good luck!
You will feel guilty and depressed later. Try to proof me wrong. Don’t say nobody warned you.
Do what comes natural, cliche I know, but we’re designed to do this. If you moan, you moan, and she’ll probably love it.
As for lasting. I think the average is 5 to 15 minutes? And from personal experience, if you worry about lasting, you’ll just come quicker. Try a lot of foreplay first, you’ll be able to tell what she likes, and it’ll help draw her closer to orgasm before you even start sex, making your job easier. Go slow during sex, I find quicker strides get you there quicker, so slower is better if you wanna last longer. And don’t focus on what you can feel, I find that intensifies the feeling, making you come quicker as well.
The bottom line, however, is: Don’t worry. Your animistic instincts will take over, worry just hurts you in the end.