please help! the same girl is in my college class…?
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last year i lost my virginity to this girl. we were hangin out in her room. she wanted to have sex. she told me that her last boyfriend had a small penis. well, i’m not that big down there either so i was a bit nervous. then after about 10 minutes we started doin it. i didn’t know what to do so she got on top and we were done after about 10 minutes. i don’t think i pleased her at all, because she wasn’t even moaning or anything. after that day i called her numerous times but she would never answer the phone. i was really depressed after that, about my penis size and about that situation. i think she was dissatisfied about my penis size and the fact that i didn’t have what it took to pleasure her. Haven’t talked to her since…
Yesterday was the first day for the class but i couldn’t make it. But i found out that she’s in that class, so should i go to class or drop it? If i do go then it will be awkward.
Please, i really need some advice, i would really appreciate it
Just be cool! Don’t drop a class just because of a stupid girl! Walk in. Pretend it never happened. IF she brings it up, just be cool. If she is critical of you, say something like, "hey it was my first time! Give me a break!" If you play it off with a smile, she won’t say anything else about it.
I have a story to make you feel better:
My freshmen year at college my boyfriend got a roommate. His name was Will. He was SUPER-HOT! After my boyfriends and I broke up (he cheated on me), I decided to go out with Will. We had a few drinks and I took him back to my apartment.
We started to have sex, and he was finished within 30 seconds. He was NOT a virgin. THAT is embarrassing! He was so embarrassed, that he left immediately. I asked him to stay, but he decided to go. I still tease him about it. But, we are friends now, so, it is a running joke. I would never tell a girl that he was with about that.
Just be friends with the girl, and laugh about it if you can.
Maybe she will give you a second chance!
no keep the class and ignore her! don’t let her get to you at all! best of luck
Dude I would lighten up on yourself. Nobody is good at sex the first time. No guy lasts long the first time either. She is probably just as embarrassed about it as you are.
Hopefully in college you will have to face many more women you have slept with, so my advice is just go out and practice.
I think that you should go to class and if she talks to you, good and if she doesn’t just act like you don’t know her.
NEVER drop a class because of a girl!
The most beautiful guy I’ve been with had a really small penis, I almost laughed, but he was the best lover I’ve ever had. He knew how to touch me, and that’s all that matters. And only trial and failure can teach you that.
Just keep being sensitive to what girls like, and remember that most of all they like guys who feel comfortable with themselves. Keep fit, have friends and study hard so that your self esteem is high. Do not believe what you see in porn movies.
Good luck!!
Yes this will be awkward for you but you need to stay in the class. Your future is not as important as some girl who just wanted some sex and may or may not have had a good time. I do not know one person who said their first time was the best time. Also, I don’t know one person who said having sex with some one who has never had sex before was the best sex they ever had either. My point is with experience you will get better, and everyone’s first time tends to suck because they have not had the practice they need to know how to have good sex. Everyone has to learn some time. Her being in this class is also another learning experience. If you have sex with some one and the relationship does not carry on meeting with them after will be awkward. The best thing you can do is keep going to class, let her approach you if she wants to talk, and don’t sweat it. Everyone has to learn some time and I bet you have a lot of school left to take and I am sure you are going to meet other girls. So my advise is go to class you paid the money you have every right to be there like she has . Good luck with class. Another thing, who is to say she will keep going to class her self. She may drop the class, Fail the class at midterms and drop out, or just leave you alone and you both go to class and both pass.