My friend's husband tells my friend not to MOAN in bed because it is stupid and not for married people.?
how to moan in bed
My friend was telling me her husband tells her not to moan(if thats the right word) when they are making love. They only both 34. they have 1 child. I aksed her if it was loud and he maybe feared the child would hear it but she said no.She says she only moans that only someone very close to their bed would hear it.
He told her it was just for teens or unmarried people to moan and that it’s stupid for adults to do that.So she says she just lies there like a log.
So don’t married people with children moan. I thought moaning was a way of showing your partner you were enjoying what they were doing to you.
what’s your take on her situation, married people? How to you avoid the noise so your children don’t have to hear it.Is it immature to moan in bed when married..This was the first time i was hearing this.
If my women don`t moan I would feel I ain`t giving her pleasure and as a man thats insulting. He sounds like a real fruit she should sleep with me and have a real good time
Tell your friend to tell her husband that if he doesn’t shut up he will get none!!!
Don’t listen to them… moan away!!!! Especially if you really mean it!
now that crap
don’t listen to him
ok thanks for sharing
Been married 27 years and we are renewing our vows in 16 days and we still moan. We have eight kids…
That’s a total piece of crock.
Children + marriage does NOT mean that you cannot enjoy sex. If you like moaning, then moan! If you moan loud enough to wake up the kids, then just go a quieter room or just close the doors!!
Geesh. It’s not like marriage just cuts out all of the romance and passion.
Married people should do whatever they feel comfortable with and it’s not right for her husband to make her feel self conscience in the bedroom. Shame on him.
Close the doors if you are worried about someone hearing you, turn on the TV, radio or wait till they are asleep.
He should seek a Psycological help.
Weird, weird. That’s all I got.
what a flippin’ idiot. must have some very repressed sexual stuff. I guess married people should only have boring sex. NOT
face it——–he is not so attracted to her anymore, everything she does annoyes the guy.
Err.. her husband is strange. I don’t get why she’s not allowed to moan, that kinda takes away from the experience. I don’t see how in anyway that’s immature or stupid. Maybe he gets turned off by her moan?
Use a ball gag. That ought to silence the moan and could lead to more pleasurable bondage and discipline measures being applied.
I say moan away. It is a great sign of letting your partner know you like what they are doing. Honestly your friends husband sounds like a jerk!
thats stupid, tell your friend her husband is a dick, and needs a reality check,
People moan because they feel good, thats it. not because they are young
I have not heard this before I am also married and my hubby doesn’t seem to have a problem with and so what if they have a kid … there is no control on that and also without the a little noise it’s not fun…
First time i’ve heard that too. I would think he would like hearing his wife moan cause then he knows he’s doing something right. lol as long as it’s not really loud and over exaggerated i don’t see anything wrong with it. That’s strange that he says that….hmmm…..
It’s the first I’ve heard of it too. Usually men feel like the king of the world if you are moaning.
Moaning is good. Most men like to have sights and sound during lovemaking. This guys brain must be missing a synapse.
no not at all. like it shows that if it feels good, and if they appreicate it… and if they have children then they should not be loud enough.. but also lock there dorrs. so the child won’t walk in while they were making love. Its life, people moan, its love.
my husband and i have been married for 8 years and we have a daughter and let me tell you, moaning is just the beginning for us
it seems your friend’s husband has some wierd issues. maybe he’s insecure? tell her it’s not her, he’s the one who’s stupid.
i feel sorry for your friend. she’s married to a lousy lover.
You’re friend’s husband is an idiot. But I guess some guys just prefer making love to a dead fish.
I guess it would be one thing if your friend was moaning like a porn star. Besides, I kind of thought moaning during sex was basically involuntary.
that dude is dumb
There’s something more to your friend’s husband’s dislike for your friend’s moaning than just that they are married. Maybe he senses she is faking or being overly dramatic? Maybe it just annoys him? If he likes for her to be "a log" then maybe he’s a necrophiliac. Could be he’s just not into her, period. In any case, it is VERY normal for married people to get loud and dirty.
Your friend needs a bed where her moaning is appreciated. Nothing is a bigger turn on then the sound of a woman.
I feel very sorry for your friend. Her husband has very serious sexual hang-ups and your friend will probably never be able to enjoy herself. How terrible. People should express their sexual pleasure in any way that feels natural. Yes, keep it down with kids close by, but that does not seem to be the problem with him
dont know whats up his ass ! so he`d rather she lay there like a log ! i suppose if she got on top, he`d say it was only for w….s maybe she should scream the next time.
Man I’ve been married for 4 years and let me tell you that I have 2 children who means the world to me.. When I am intimate with my husband I do moan and he moans to0
We don’t moan loudly to the point that the kids will hear but we moan to each others ears.
moaning is a showing like you say girl that you are enjoying it to the fullest. It’s better when you moan I say more passion forth of July happens I say. Well at least in my case!!!
i say it is OK for anyone to moan why not..
When I’m with my husband, I can’t help but moan because it feels so good and we’ve been married 15 years. He doesn’t complain. If I need to be quiet, I can, by clutching the sheets,my hair, anything I can get a hold of!!!
I moan my wife moans and yes it is a way of letting your partner know that what your doing they are enjoying really being quiet what the heck is that if he doesn’t want noise why doesn’t he just wait until she is sleeping. Tell your friend that her husband is being a complete moron and that if she wants to make noise then make the shingles rock who gives a shit.
This guy needs to grow up if he wants quiet he should have married a mute.
Does this also include dirty talk during lovemaking?.
If so this guy sounds like a guy who needs a good dose of reality!. I would maybe get your hubby if you have one to talk to this friends husband and set him straight before his marriage ends up in the crapper!.
That is strange…he shouldn’t put restrictions on her like that…as for whether or not it is immature…of course not! Why not let your partner know how much you are enjoying what they are doing for you? I was self conscious that I was too vocal with my husband and tried to tone it down and it actually made him wonder if he was doing something wrong…this man sounds like he has some major sexual hangups…
My first time also. Enjoy moan and groan he** scream if you want to you are injoying what you are doing so injoy
Sounds as if your friends husband has some serious sexual hangups and control issues. If she don’t turn this around now it will only get worse and she will be miserably married for then it will be something else hes trying to control. She needs to have a serious talk with him or have a male friend or family member talk to him. Somewhere in life hes been taught all the wrong things about sex, or perhaps heard it from his parents when he was a child which might of not only traumatized him but turned him off to the sounds of lovemaking.
At 34 years old, married with a child….he should be grateful she does moan! He’s crazy. Tell him I said so. Maybe she should start incorporating a couple of squeals into the sessions!
That poor, poor woman. I can’t imagine her sex life could be to fulfilling if she has to restrain herself and lie there like a log. Her husband is an idiot!
That poor little diluted man, what’s he thinking? Moan your heart out! Add a little ‘YEEEE HAAAWWW’ if it works for ya. Sex in marriage is suppose to get better, not more dull! It isn’t that difficult to make sure the kids can’t hear what’s going on and I’m amazed that a husband would want to ‘tame down’ their sex life! He should be ashamed of himself!hehe
I have been married for almost 1 year, and have been with my husband for over 6 years before hand. We have a 2 1/2 year old. I make more noises (moaning, talking dirty, telling him what I want) than I did before we got married. The noises are one of the things that my husband loves about making love with me! Tell your friend that I am sorry about her situation!
Poor guy. He just might have some hang-up with that. Almost nobody is totally cool with everything that can happen bed. Just ask yourself, what won’t you do in bed. Some one else might find your list prohibitions odd or ridiculous.
I don’t think moaning is stupid, my wife sure doesn’t. We do try to keep things quiet because we have two teenage children but when the kids are away and we’re alone then that’s another story.
first of all you are making love to your husband. you can dress up, use whips and cuffs, moan…or do what ever you want to with him…nothing will be wrong…because you are doing this with your husband. tell them to mind their own business and to keep their opinions to themselves. they could be jealous because you are actually HAVING FUN instead of using it as a job
Who wants to have quiet sex??
We have children and we still make plenty of noise in bed. We are blessed with thick walls and kids who are sound sleepers. =)
This guy sounds seriously repressed. So, he makes NO noise during sex? Boring! And how strange that he would want her to be quiet; most men get off on the noises their women make during love making.
They need to find some books or videos about sex and learn a few things together.
I cant even write this guy has got me so "speechless" -what a nutball
weird, unnatural…..
Does he own you or something? IF IT FEELS GOOD! DO IT!
It sounds like we all agree this man has issues. To your question on how to avoid others hearing, we turn on the television or better yet the radio to our favorite classic rock station and shut the door.
It is not immature to moan. With some women it is natural. I wouldn’t let my kids hear her but that’s common sense. the man is just turned off by it. my opinion. I think as long as you don’t start barking. i think its fine
That’s so private and individual to each marriage. Some people scream, some are silent, some moan. Whatever works for them.
He shouldn’t really be telling HER how to enjoy it, though, in my opinion. Sounds like there are other issues at play here.
then tell me this, what is the real reason to have sex then? its suposed to be fullfilling on both parts… they’re suposed to enjoy themselves..
Its not immature its just showing how your spouse makes you feel. If he doesnt like it when she moans she needs to do things to him that will blow his mind and make him want to moan hell change his mind really quick excpecially if she gets a peep out of him she could put a mint in her mouth while giving him oral sex that will get him. thats the advice I have.