Girl Moan

Jeremy:

Okay, … dude….

Uh…. You’re going to need to basically follow some of these steps/guidelines:

Start with gentle and smooth touching. The best time is when her body is very warm. So, after she has just cried or woken up. Remember to be gentle especially around the ‘hood’. And also remember that you’re a ways away from getting in with anything.

Kiss, etc. The number one reason you’ll miss will be because you didn’t make her horny. Tell her you love her. Learn about breast massage. And whatever kinky stuff you’re thinking about. You basically need to learn how to do it properly. There are good vids and channels on YouTube that feature adult content and guides for most of the sailor stuff.

Back to the last paragraph, foreplay is going to be your best friend. Use your hands for a while. Think about her pleasure and her praise. Don’t just jump in when you’re really feeling it. One of your biggest barriers will be not knowing that her feelings are totally separate from yours. You might feel great and think, "There’s no way she isn’t having a wild time!" But in truth, she is feeling pain, boredom, or something like that….

So, there are three primary positions to know inside-out: doggy style, t-style (where your bodies are sideways to each other), and missionary. Every woman will be different. Most will know what they like best after trying all three. Anything else is going to just be an extension of those.

If you want to cut your time down by 80-90%, remember this: always make sure that your woman is breathing. The "heaven-and-earth-gate" style says it isn’t good to stop, but you shouldn’t be afraid to slow down. Don’t be afraid to pull out or change positions if you’re about to explode, either. She’ll understand. She’s in it for the long haul. Trust me–but we’ll get to retention, later. For now, just remember this key point: if she’s breathing, she’s well on her way.

Now, pillows are your best friend, especially if anyone has any rigid bones anywhere. Put one under her back if she likes missionary. T-style, put one under her foot and her side and possibly her head. When she starts to understand the angle of attack she likes best, she’ll use the pillows to make your job a lot faster.

The best ways to keep yourself from blowing up follow. For one, you can just act like you’re totally bored. Some people say that disappointed works best but it’s bored for me. If you’re rolling your eyes and thinking, "This is freegin troublesome, lame, boring," and you’re convinced, you’ll be able to hang on for hours and hours. Another, breathing. Focus on your breathing, and you will have more awareness of when you are going to pop. If you know, you’ll be able to slow down. And one more: praising her body. Put more energy into just enjoying each other than you do into getting off. You’ll be happier that way, I think.

Now, let’s talk about visualization. What I would think about, if I were you, would be a body of water. Picture you and your mate in a body of water when you are making love. The more water, the more passion. There doesn’t have to be a lot of passion at first. You can always picture snow or rain or an increase in current, later. If you are on the verge of popping, one of the best things you can imagine is water falling onto your head. You can put your head on a wall or the headboard or the floor, if it helps. It should keep you very relaxed. And she’s begging for it, start thinking about a raging current. Don’t be afraid to rock the roof.

One thing that I forgot to mention, which I should have mentioned a long time ago: atmosphere. Candles, steamy pads, showers, exciting places, dark places, strange places. If you find a place that a woman is really intrigued by, she’s going to be more receptive.

Those are some of my best tips. Don’t tell the world!

Bah, I don’t care, actually. The way my girlfriends moan, I never need to worry about the competition.

secrets12189:

there is a moaning out there for you!
don’t give up!

ammonite:

maybe try masturbating a time or two before you engage in intercourse. sometimes that can help someone to avoid getting too excited during sex.

Rick:

Ok man, this is kinda rough and I haven’t ever had this problem. But I’ll try to help as best I can. First off, don’t rush. Make her anticipate what its gonna be like. Kiss her whole body.. get very very close to those personal areas. Like the breasts.. kiss all over them but don’t touch the nipple at all.. make her wait. Same for down below.. get so close she can feel your warm breath, but don’t touch the clitoris. Maybe even lick her lips nice and slow just to tease her.. A woman can only take so much teasing.. so when you can tell she is wanting more.. like bad, then go and give her some oral. Now for this, while I could try and guide you step by step on what to do. Its better that you read up on it on your own. And its also better if you some familiarity of the female anatomy. The more you know, the better off you’ll be. Now there are lots of things you can do down there once you know where you’re going. Maybe trace your ABC’s, then your numbers. Use an altoid or some poprocks.. stuff like that. But if you wanna be the best lover, you gotta know your stuff. Not only what women generally like, but what your specific woman loves! And if you can get her to have her big "O" with your tongue, she may be willing to over look the lack of stamina you have.. And alot of men will get increased stamina from receiving oral as well. So if she wants more time out of you, she’s gotta put in her time as well. But the most important thing is to spend time on her.. make her feel wanted and appreciated.. normally when women feel that way, they’ll stick around a little longer to let you get your mojo straight. Best of luck!