I feel so down today …are all Virgos feelin like this?

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I feel down because I don’t have a job to earn myself a living, interact with people, which i like doing, (i’m very approachable) and whenever i look for jobs, i have no luck in it.

Then comes my home life, my mum (Scorpio), constant nagging, constant telling me how she had a bad luck in love, men etc. got blind and deaf arrange marriage, divorced after 24 years. I DO emphasise with her a lot but she goes on about it. I’m asking myself, "why does she talk about these things to me when i only ask for freedom?" Why? is she jealous? Always ony my sisters case of irresponsible and then tells me, why can’t she confront her instead? always complaining and always say she’s down on her luck. I’ve always told her, to stay strong and keep your head high and stop moaning about her bad luck. This is where i get depressed because i really wanna be a regular 22 yr old girl, having the time of my life and lead myself to a great adventure.

Then heres my lack of friends, well i have friends that are cool and great to talk to but i’d like to be in a bigger social circle too so that i can have a life and sociable.

As for love life, i dont really wanna talk about it but it where i have to choose between my guy friend (Taurus) who i have been friends for 2 yrs but dont know where i truly stand with him because we got off the FWB and another guy from my university, barely know him but i find him attractive and i know he likes me too.

I don’t mind hard work and responsibilites but i wanna have fun too and i wanna make my life story exciting. I dont wanna be a boring person who stays at home and does nothing.

and my final fear is that I’m scared if i’m gonna be married too soon like when i turn 23 or 24, for me its too early and i wanna be married to someone who is right for me and the right time and the constant talk between my mum and her families back home scares me i dont be married until i feel i’m mature enough to understand relationships and mature enough to handle the traditional the meeting the in laws, etc.

Why people cannot understand how i feel about stuff, my mum doesn’t listen on what i got to say per se but she wants most things her way, my sister her and her constant freedom and both my mum and my sister suck my freedom out and i feel so claustrophobic.

I hate crying and i just wanna be happy for once in my life, why cant i get that??

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7 Responses to “I feel so down today …are all Virgos feelin like this?”

  • Cindi:

    Wow, i feel sorry but im a virgo myself and ive been feeling down fopr quite a while and i dont know why, i started feeling down since this year started, I wonder why… & Yes virgos are often misunderstood which sucks. and wow us virgos have a lot in common, i have awesome friends too but i would like to have a bigger circle of friends. also yeah you should try to be like other signs (sags&ariesorleos) outgoing! fun!

  • ? Zildjian :):

    Yes, me too.

  • Elley:

    Todayhas been kinda… blah… my fience gave me his cold and ive been at the hospital since 5:30 this morning (my aunt is having surgary).

  • ta-ta or niqua or niqua-niqua:

    im a virgo to i been depressed since may 20 b\c my so called friend made me mad and it made me gett angry with my boyfriend who i had loved so much in my life i been crying all last weekend i dont know i ever would talk to my boyfriend again in my life

  • JCG:

    All Virgos are experiencing a tremendous time of restrictions due to the presence of Saturn in Virgo until october of this year, the way you feel is the result of this transit that occurs every 30 years, this is a perfect time to re-evaluate your goals and aspirations, Saturn will bring experiences and situation that in the beginning will look ugly or undesirable but believe me it’s for your own good, this will lead you to gain a different and new perspective of life, let go the past, make changes to re-direct your aspirations, make plans for your future based in all the new and beautiful things that you want in life, at the time when Saturn leave the sign of Virgo doors will start to open, but remember in order to achieve great results, keep in mind that what you need is a brand new fresh start, the more you set this new beginning, the better the results.

  • Simply Stated<3:

    Sorry for your miss-fortune.

    I’m a Vigro as well. I have been down for a while now. =/
    I’ve been stressed; there’s so much going on.

    Today.. is a slow day, but I’m trying to work through it! I’m trying to make this a productive day.

    loveAVERs

  • L?ve is wild in many ways:

    hey ty for answerin one of my questionss :]
    and yea me tooo ive been feelin down since janurary :\\
    ive been crying sad nd all for a while

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