How to control passionate husband?
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My husband loves me a lot. Back from office he doesnt leave me for a sec. Once in, he takes off my clothes and keeps me naked till morning. even before bed, He keeps fondling boobs, caressing butts, hugging, licking and kissing me while I do cooking, watch TV and other things.
He extends the love even in public which has been a problem. Even in social meetings, he sits with arm around my neck and rests his hand on boob. When others attention is diverted, he fondles my boobs, pushes hand in to blouse, pinches nipples. He openly hugs me and does wet kisses in parties. In the car, he keeps his hand under my butts and quite often pushes in to my pant and holds flesh of butts. He says squeezing spongy bums provides relaxation to him. what if people watch him doing this?
I feels proud about his deep love, but worried of others noticing me especially when I know my boobs and butts are quite big and attract attention of others.
How to control the passionate husband without hurting?
Some of the incidents make me more worried now.
Recently we went for a function at friends house. I went to kitchen to help myself for a drink and he too came, hugged me from behind kissing,licking my neck and all over face and fonding boobs. He spilled drink on my boobs. While he was licking and sucking wet boobs, the host came to kitchen.
Sensing it we split a bit before she entered. Once my husband left, the host asked me about how long we were married.
The message was clear that we need to control after several years of married life.
Now I need to act.
I dont know if you are my wife. But I somehow get the thrill while enjoying my wife in public still making sure of others not noticing. I cant give a reason but when my wife objects to it I am hurt.
People keep thinking lot of things about others irrespective of whatever we try to maintain our reputation. But sometimes, you need to take priorities between your husband’s passion (if it is true passion instead of lust) and others feelings about it.
Ideally you create safe situations in public where your husband can get some thrill. For instance you can create some thing like your kitchen experience but with caution making sure no one will be around atleast for those minutes when he plays with you.
YOUR A PERVERT GET A LIFE TAKE A HIKE
Who cares what others might think, how many married women have you seen post on here beggin for information on how to get their husband to pay some attention to them.
I say let him have at it… perhaps in public he needs to learn some manners……at home as long as you are down with his playfulness have fun……..
we there is 2 ways to look at this..One it almost sound like he just wants sex from you..I’ve been married 16 yrs and even though the wife and i make love 2-3 times a week and are very passionate in the bed room and a bit outside the bedroom..but not like that..there is a place and time for everything..I even read one in the bible it’s wrong to be lustful… Dont get me wrong ..I hug the wife a dozen times a day…kiss her…and at least once a day maybe fondle her …but it sounds like your hubby goes a bit over board..Is it your heart he loves-whats deep inside of you or is it your body he really once..
Doing those things at home–totally fine & normal…out in the public eye–DISRESPECTFUL (to you & them). He needs to control himself out of respect. I’d tell him though you appreciate and love the attention he gives you’d like it mostly done privately. Hopefully he listens…
Man your boobs must be exhausted from your husband & his Brother playing with them all the time!
wow girl I would love it !how would you like just the opposite one that shows no attention even in private .I would love it
If this is a "passionate" husband, I’m not sure I want one.
There’s a time and place for everything. It’s great that he loves you, but he needs to learn how to be appropriate in front of others. That would just weird me out if I saw a couple behaving that way.
do what you want in private, but in public he needs to control himself
Carry a stick and say, "down boy!" *whack, whack, whack*.
Have you bothered to say anything? Just say, "why I love you and appreciate the way you treat me and care for me, I would really like more personal space when we are out in public. It makes me feel uncomfortable."
I can’t answer this because as soon as I read the phrase "squeezing spongy bums" I started cracking up! So THATS why my husband does that. It’s relaxing! Who knew??
yes wives want attention, but he is groping you i public which is a complete display of disrespect ofr you as a human being. you are obviously a piece of meat.
what would happen if you said no just once? How would he react? Would he get angry? try that and see how in love he is with you if you aren’t in the mood.
there is a big difference in love and lust
are you my wife??
Sounds just like me.
Sounds a bit like me, over exaggerated. LOL LOL. I"m not that bad. or good, however you want to look at it.
I think he should talk to a shrink as he has issues of intimacy. He sounds like he’s afraid of loosing you and taking as much of you as possible.Or possibly never had someone who "was his" needing constant reasurance. He is a ‘toucher’, at the extreme end of the scale.( me, I’m in the middle ). If you can talk to him and he can listen and fathom what your saying, try to get him to agree to more agree able behavior when in public, a little bit at a time. Do’nt change him all in one shot, it won’t work. The alternative is the shrink. Good luck , you lucky girl!
Ive been married for 4yrs , My husband and i were together in high school ~ Even in high school he never did that or myself either . I think he needs to give you room, and let him know it’s not OK for him to act like that . Sweetie he needs to be taught some manners. Good Luck.
The message was clear? From whom? If you enjoy the treatment don’t complain. He could be giving someone else that treatment. Don’t be such a prude and don’t be so hypocritical.
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