FEMALE 0RGASM/M0ANING?
female moan
My bf is really great in bed & he won’t stop/c*m until he thinks i’ve had an orgasm. But sometimes i just can’t c*m, not that he’s bad, it feels great, but i just don’t reach that point so i fake it. Do you think this is bad? He seems really into pleasing me so would it be really bad for his ego if i told him the truth?
Also, how do guys like female moaning. Is it a turn on? or does it get weird/annoying? What kind of moaning is best? Loud Screamers? or soft whimpers?
Faking orgasm is never a good idea in the long run. What most guys don’t know is that a lot of women do this. As someone who took 1,000 surveys from women about sexuality I can tell you this was a topic that came up often. And many women openly said they practice faking it. The major reason was that the guy was having intercourse way too long, it was boring or uncomfortable and they just weren’t going to have an orgasm anyway. Not all women are able to have an orgasm through intercourse on a regular basis or at all. Guys just don’t seem to understand this.
While it’s a blow to his ego. You need to let them know women don’t always have an orgasm with each encounter…. and then a lot of women can have many orgasms during one encounter outpacing guys altogether. It can balance out in the end. But keeping scores is for baseball, not sex. You need to explain to him that just being with him and pleasing him is a great experience also. Explain to him when he goes too long it can be irritating. Communication and understanding is very important here
As for the moaning …. that helps considerably. As long as the neighbors below unit apartment are banging on the ceiling it’s not too loud
Adviceman
IF YOU DO TELL HIM TELL IT IN AN UNDERSTANDING WAY ITS NOT HIM ITS YOU IF YOU DONT HIS FEELINGS WILL GET HURT MY MAN SAYS BEING A MAN HE’D KNOW.
i will go for soft whimpers.
Hmm, I probally would not tell him and Loud moaning is a really big turn on!
–Nick
i love a girl who talks in bed its a plus. 2 ways is good. but try to relax and tell him to go down on you alot of time i mean alot try playing with your clit and warm good before da action
I used to be in the same position. I used to fake it until I got sick of it. But I didn’t just straight up tell him that he can’t make me c*m, I guided him and gave him pointers to please me better. He found it rather exciting as well. (;
for the moaning, I do a combination of both, but I don’t fake that part. Just don’t be one of those wh***es that scream nonstop. That’s a turnoff for sure
Yes tell him in a nice way.. Show him what works and teach him. We are not that good at pleasing a girl.. We only know how to have sex. The two are not the same.
Buy a DVD of Girl on Girl porn. Porn is the best teacher. You see he cannot ask his parents.. Or a teacher at school, and certainly no boy or girl will explain this to him. Heck even you are asking if you should tell him.
He needs to go down on you. That is the ticket. I never do my girl without a good long licking down there. The moaning is important here. Its our only clue as to what is working. Sex is comunication. If he is not getting ou off then teach him.
I never insert my penis until my girl is screaming mad. I get her off every single time and I don’t go for the fake. I can tell the difference and I wait for her to wet the sheets before I give her my load.
This was because I wanted my girl to keep wanting me.
She never left me for another male. And how did I do this ? By watching porn and learning how to please a girl. I mean I was bad at first. I could never get the girl to unload. After years of practice I now can do it in seconds.
I can go right down there with my mouth and finger and I stay down there for a good long time. Never having sex until she gets off. That was my rule and getting her there now is faster and easier.
Teach to boy ! We want to learn… Trust me. You lock his tool right ?
So what about you. You have the same thing.. Its smaller and has a foreskin like him if he still has one.
What works for a man works for a woman. And that is that.
Have fun… = YOUR BEST ANSWER =
Never fake it if you fake it he thinks what he is doing is just right for you so he will continue performing the same way thinking he is doing a good job because that’s what you have lead him to believe if your not getting your orgasm then TALK to him communication is the key to success in sex as for moans and stuff start soft save the screams until there genuine
i love a girl who talks in bed its a plus. 2 ways is good. but try to relax and tell him to go down on you alot of time i mean alot try playing with your clit and warm good before da action
fake?… don’t be.. coz it will give a fake R&D for your bf to make you feel better on the next sex
It can be a huge turn on for us guys when a woman vocalizes her pleasure! A lot of us get very horny knowing we have pleased our woman and her moaning would certainly be a key indicator of that!
I suggest that you don’t tell him that you have faked it, for if you do… he’ll never believe it when you actually moan for real! Instead, why don’t you show him the areas of your body that he should stimulate in order to guarantee that you have an orgasm. He can stimulate these areas orally, with his hands or by penetration.
i like to hear it, but not loud yelling, softer is sexier to me